Post # 1
I am curious to know how many brides give their MOH something extra or different from the rest of the girls. I recently had my bachelorette party and I (the bride) had to pay for everything (spa & lunch). And for my shower, my mother in law and grooms family are doing most of the planning for it as my family is not close and my MOH really wanted nothing to do with. It is her first time being a MOH, so I understand that things are new for her. I bought the girls clutches from Coach and some smaller beauty items to go along, I am wondering if it rude of me not to get her something different or extra, as I feel she has not gone that extra mile for me.
Post # 3
I actually got every one of my girls something different…I wanted to keep it personal (think Christmas gifts) and things that I knew they wanted/could use aside from the wedding day…
Post # 4
I am giving my cousin something extra. She planned my bachelorette party, so I want to give her something to thank her for that. Other than that, everybody is getting the exact same thing.
Post # 5
I have three bridesmaids and one maid of honor. Two of my bridesmaids are my sisters. Thus far I have gotten everyone the same thing but I probably will do something extra for my MOH and bridesmaid that aren’t related to me. My sisters don’t know the first thing about being bridesmaids and I had to get their dress/shoes. My MOH is out of state and has already came to visit once before our wedding. And other bridesmaid is helping with my shower as my MOH is not able to do those things…so I was thinking about doing a little something extra for the other two ladies.