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Gifts for the parents

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    Tulip61110    June 11, 2010   Philadelphia

    Are you giving gifts to your parents to thank them for helping with the wedding...financially or otherwise?  If so, how much do you think is reasonable to spend? 

    I would like to give my parents something since they are contributing to the wedding, but I feel like they might actually not like the idea of receiving gifts, knowing how much money my FI and I have to put out for the wedding itself. 

    Also, both FI's and my parents are divorced and some are remarried...that would end up being a lot of gifts if we got something for all of them!

     
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    Miss Cheeky    May 8, 2010   South Jersey

    I was torn with this. I wanted to do something sentimental but couldn't really think of anything. I just got cards for everyone and both moms are getting a parent album from our wedding. I might also get a personalized frame engraved with a professional wedding pic. Our wedding is also the day before mother's day so we got them something nice for mother's day.

     
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    brittanymichelle    June 5, 2010   Cheyenne, Wy

    i wanted to get something for some, and not so compelled for others.. i still don't know what to do!

     
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    MeghanV    May 2010   New York

    I wanted to get our moms something really nice and ended up using a friend's discount at Tiffany.  Then we got a simpler necklace for FI's stepmom, and for my dad and (evil) stepmom, we just got them a vase.  Easier and cheaper, plus I just couldn't bring myself to get my stepmother an individual gift.

    Something sentimental is always nice... I was considering a nice picture frame with a note framed inside of it, and then they could put replace it with a wedding picture later on.  And I guess the above is just a reminder that if you have any friends with discount connections, don't be afraid to use them!  I still overspent on gifts, but we wouldn't have been able to afford anything nearly as nice on our own.  I knew my parents were kind of expecting nice gifts, but if yours aren't, you don't need to go crazy.

     
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    pinkmonkee    5/15/2010   Orange County, California

    We are getting my parents a tree to plant and a gift certificate to a restaurant and of course wedding pics! They are paying for a bunch and we wouldn't be doing it without them!.. FI's parents didn't help so we are not getting them anything.

     

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