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I understand how you feel, especially the awkwardness of it. You said straight out that you felt awkward and random asking her, and apologize, so hopefully she will understand. I admit if I hadnt gotten a gift I would feel a little pressured to, BUT if I had then I would be relieved you said something!
Keep in mind that people will buy gifts really early and keep them to bring to the wedding. I had a rice cooker bough before my shower and I never got it at the shower. 2.5 months later I realized it was from my cousin who brought it to the wedding. Drove me crazy thinking that someone hadnt been delivered properly.
We had our shower last weekend and there are 3 items that have been purchased from our registry but we did not receive them at the shower. So I'm waiting until the wedding before I worry too much about it.
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Really odd question. So I got an email from a cousin out in CO asking me if I received the gift she sent 3 weeks ago - she said she was just wondering because I hadn't mentioned anything or sent a thank you. She felt bad for even asking, but wanted to make sure I received it. Well...I haven't. So I checked my registry, and there are about 7 items that are 'fulfilled' that I haven't received. So already in freak-out mode b/c the wedding is less than 2 months away, I am wondering who else got me a gift that I haven't said thank you to!
So this past weekend I went out with one of my BM's to her parents' house, she was acting kinda funny towards the end of the weekend - not mad but just off. So I was thinking today what if she got me a gift off the registry and was mad I didn't say thank you?!? My shower was 2 weeks ago and I knew she couldn't go - but she hadn't sent anything and didn't give me anything this weekend so I sent her the following email - was it rude? I wasn't trying to be - I just do not want to seem ungrateful at all!! And if she didn't get me a gift - no big deal - I just don't want her to think I can't say thanks or whatever.
<span style="font-size: x-small; font-family: Arial;">"I have totally awkward and random question - did you happen to get me something from my registry for my shower? My cousin out in CO said she sent me something from there, but since it has been over 3 weeks and I haven't mentioned it or sent a thank-you, she just wanted to check with me to see what was going on. So I checked my registry and saw that there are more things on there that are 'fulfilled' but I haven't gotten. I'm totally going to feel like a sh_thead if people have bought me stuff that I have yet to get, and they think I'm not saying thank you or sending out a thank you. So if you did - I apologize for not saying thank you this weekend in person and if not, nevermind! :) Totally random, I know - and sorry for even asking - but like I said, I feel bad if people think I'm ungrateful!!