- 6 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
So, I have plan this whole wedding myself, with no help, when I try to get my Maid/Matron of Honor to help with anything she would tell me she was too busy with her own stuff and with whatever even today when I called her and asked her to drive by davids and see if they had a certain pair of shoes in a certain size she said she might tomorrow because she was on her way to a friends house, I live over an hour an half from davids and I swear i’m not exaggerating she lives less than 5miles from a davids (she lives in new orles, right off veterans) my other two are just as useless one is complaining because she bought $80.00 shoes even though I found some for 39.00 I told her to return them she said its too late (ugh) they other one is also complaining b/c of they didnt have her shoes her size she has a nice job and she makes a lot of money so I told her that the other girl bought 80.00 shoes that are similar or we could just look at another davids she flipped and said how could I make her pay for 80.00 shoes after paying for 130dress.. (all this happen within 2days)
Well these 3 girls have never offer to come help me decorate, send invitations, plan anything, I never had a bridal shower, or a bachelorette party I am only 23 years old we are all young, 2 of them go out all the time, they never made the effort to make extra time to help me or invite me or anything…
I bought all this stuff to make personalize hangers for each one and I was going to make each one glitter champane glasses but now I really dont want to anymore. not within a week out, an me having other stuff that needs to be done…
So should I give them Gifts or should I not?
PS: I had a friend, who is not my bridemaid come to my house, and help me spray paint my center pices, I was also going to make her a gift. I feel like now I just want to recognize her in front of everyone at the reception, is that the extreme B**** move??? I’m not mad i’m just very sad how all of this has turned out