- 5 years ago
- Wedding: January 2013
We received our first wedding gift in the mail yesterday. Our wedding is in January and we actually just sent out our invitations yesterday as well (I know we are behind, but we did Save the Dates). So the gifts were received from the “Smith Family,” the invites which I am sure they will only get in a day or two, were adressed to only “Mr. and Mrs. Smith” we are not doing kids based only on cost. So my question is two-fold I guess.
1. I have no idea if they sent the gift so soon because they won’t be attending and I know you should send Thank You’s for gifts received before the wedding …before the wedding, but if they come to the wedding I assume we send another Thank You card for them attending?
2. Should we now feel obligated to invite “and Family.” We felt kind of bad that they will get the invite in a few days and see their kids aren’t invited, but then how does that look…
Hope this makes sense.