GIRL CODE!

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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8706 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

If your friend has dated him/her, he’s/she’s off limits forever.

Post # 4
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1362 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Turf Valley

I don’t have a favorite code, but I do love that show!!

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: Either Philadelphia City Hall or a small chapel.

@Hyperventilate:  I kinda think that’s immature. You don’t own that person. Though, I actually had a girlfriend set me up with her ex.

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

@MissFormaldehyde:  +1 I don’t like that “code” as a blanket  statement at all.

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

@MissFormaldehyde:  I’ll disagree. Sure, you don’t own the person, but they have to walk around with the memories that happened to them (whether bad or good) and IMO, it’s not worth risking the friendship. If the breakup wasn’t mutual and then they end up seeing said person every time they want to go out with you, way to rub salt in the wound.

To each their own. It has nothing to do with possession. It has to do with respect.

Post # 9
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

@eecuadrado:  The fact that you claim it was awkward just kinda proves the rule.

However you want to justify it to yourself. I just find it safer to not subject myself to awkwardness or potential hurt feelings or loss of a friendship. 

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

@eecuadrado:  I’ve always interpreted “girl code” or “guy code” as something followed between friends, not between all girls or guys, respectively. So if you’re no longer friends with the person then it’s not breaking the “girl code”.

Basically, don’t date/mess around with your friend’s ex is showing respect towards that friend. If you’re not friends anymore, then you don’t need a “code” to protect the friendship. 

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

@Hyperventilate:  Haha my middle school friends would majorly be breaking girl code if that were the rule–we all dated each other! In fact, I went to the wedding of an old friend and my first-ever boyfriend!

But yeah, once you get older and more serious, I think it gets a bit stickier.

I don’t know this show, but I feel like a girl code rule is you always tell someone if they have toilet paper on their shoe, lipstick on their teeth, etc.

Post # 14
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Busy bee

@Hyperventilate:  i agree with you. dating your friends ex is a definite no go. if it is just an aquaintance…sure. but definitely not a close friend.

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

First of all, I think this show is total trash and can’t believe that they play it on MTV.  I really hope no young girls are taking advice from those “women”.  Sorry to seem all “holier than thou” but I am so blown away with some of the things that they talk about on that show!  Maybe there’s a better place for that show to air than a station aimed at teenagers.

RANT OVER.

My girl code is no hating on women that you don’t know.

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