girl crushes??

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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2878 posts
Sugar bee

It can happen. I like that it happens, because I don’t think it’s all black or white, like you’re either 100% straight or 100% gay and nothing in-between ever exists. I like to believe we can have crush on people for who they are, not just on ”sexes” based on our instinctive sexual attraction/sexual orientation.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

This happens to me too. Well, I guess with me it can happen with anyone that I feel safe around. Dental assistants, doctors, coworkers, family friends, neighbors. Male or female. But anytime I feel safe and/or comfortable with someone, I have (short-lived) crushes on them.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

I’ve had a few girl crushes before.  The 1st was probably my nail technician in high school. I also had a girl crush on my college roommate before I started to hate her.  And just a few random people over the last few years. They’ve been quite shortlived though. No biggie.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

countrygirl12:  What you describe is how I like to think of most of my friends or those I want to know more. They are just the kind of people who are awesome and I want to spend more time with. I never think of it as a “crush.” I just want to be around cool, funny peeps. No biggie.

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

countrygirl12:  I think it’s pretty normal.  I had a TOTAL girl crush on my yoga teacher a while back.  It was sort of non-sensical since I hardly knew her, but there was just something about her that I was attracted to.

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

countrygirl12:  Absolutely normal!  My girl crushes are mostly currently celebrities but every once in awhile I have a total girl crush!  (And still love my DH).

Post # 9
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2871 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

LilRhodyGem:  I agree that this sounds more like friendship than a crush.

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

I have a girl body crush on someone at the gym. She doesn’t have any clue how much swoon over her effing 6 pack LOL

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