Girls, i have a problem…POS 2 days ago and ..

posted 1 year ago in Pregnancy
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Bumble bee

i had no symptoms until i was 6-7 weeks and only then it was a weird gurgly tummy havent had sore nipples at all and my sickness started around 8 weeks. i would make an appointment to see your doctor and get them to confirm and go for there. as you are over 35 they will want to run extra tests anyway. but congratulations (even if it is a bit scary for you right now)  

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Bumble bee

whilst i agree it is a desicion you have to come to together i have also experienced friends who decided to abort because their partners didnt want the baby and they ended up resenting the desicion and their partners. you still have some time to decide what is best for your situation. Im sure there will be people who tell you you should have been more carefull and are 100% pro life but in your situation it is a hard desicion to make. Im not sure of the ages of your current children but you will likely have extra hands to help which will make things easier for you both. A the moment you are both in shock. Take time to talk through all the pros and cons and make a rational desicion. Dont rush your choice.

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Helper bee

I had no symptoms until about 2 months after my pee stick came back positive.  Your husband may not want the baby because it’s such a shock but if my husband said that I would probably punch him in the balls.  It all depends on your belief and what you are comfortable with, and while I agree with abortions when the health of the mother is at risk or some other reasons for me life is precious.  Take time to really think about this, you don’t want to regret your decisions for the rest of your life.  Good luck and best wishes to you.

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Bumble bee

@Rivendeler:  I can’t imagine being in your position right now. I think if you have ANY doubts about terminating the pregnancy then you shouldn’t go through with it. I have a friend who went through something similar. She had an abortion and even a few years later she couldn’t be around babies or talk about anything baby related without bursting into tears because she regretted it so much. I also think your husband is probably reacting out of fear and not necessarily thinking about the end result (men tend to do that!).

Every single child is a miracle and in my opinion, worth any inconvenience they may cause. I bet the second your little baby is born, your husband will forget any doubts he ever had about whether or not to keep him/her. =)

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