- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
Help!!! My Maid/Matron of Honor and Aunt offered to throw a bridal shower for me about a month ago. The date for that shower is April 14. Just this past week, two co-workers said they wanted to throw a shower as well. It would be at one of their homes, exactly one week before the other shower, April 7. They want me to invite more that just coworkers though.
My dilema is this: Should I give friends that live out of town (like 4+ hours out of town) the option as to which shower they would like to be invited to? April 7 is the day before Easter, so many of them may be home that weekend and not want to try and make it home the following weekend for the other shower.
Is it completely rude to ask them to choose a shower before sending an invite? Should I give the names to each host and allow dual invitations to be sent??? Please share your thoughts!!!