(Closed) Give quests a choice of which bridal shower to get an invite to???

posted 6 years ago in Parties
  • poll: Should guests be invited to multiple bridal showers?
    Yes, invite them to both and let them choose which date works best for them. : (4 votes)
    19 %
    No, the bride needs to pick a shower and if the guest can't make it, too bad. : (9 votes)
    43 %
    The bride should ask the guest which shower would work best for them before invites go out. : (8 votes)
    38 %
  • Post # 3
    4046 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    it might be nice to give the out of towners a choice and  invite them to either  but choose for the locals which shower.

    Post # 4
    2849 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    @kerensa:  I agree with this. You should choose for the locals, but let the out of town guests pick the date that works best for them. If I’m traveling a long distance to attend a shower, I would definitely like to have a choice of which weekend to make the trip.

    Post # 5
    4824 posts
    Honey bee

    I mostly chose for my guests by location or relation (family or friend based on location and who is throwing it). I would only invite work people and mom and BMs to the coworker one. And tell them they do not have to come or bring a present! My BMs went to two, but only threw and gifted one.

    If there is a question, ask them.

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