(Closed) GIving a wedding toast/speech – an honor? or annoyance?

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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4824 posts
Honey bee

Depends on the person.  But becareful. If you didnt want to give one the honor of MOH officially, you essentially did by asking to say something in the form of a speech since that is a typical MOG duty. I would ask each of them, if they are comfortable, to say 30 seconds to a minute worth if a speech so they feel equal.

If I were the other two, I would feel the other person was favored and annoyed that one person got the “special attention” as a speech giver and to the guests the honor of MOH and yet we all had to share all the duties/cost.

Post # 4
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939 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Personally, I wouldn’t want to give a speech.  I’m just not one for getting up in front of people and being sentimental/entertaining.  Not my thing.  And I would be very nervous/anxious about doing so.  I would gladly let someone else give the speech, but that’s just me.  You know your girls best.

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