(Closed) Giving the ring back? Need advice!

posted 5 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

This does not sound like a healthy situation at all. I’m sorry you are going through this. Have you considered family counseling?? I think that may help you come up with a system that works for all of you. It’s obviously a difficult situation for everyone. I worry about his kids feeling resentment toward you (when you take your kid out but not his). I think you guys really need to sit down and have a remediation session. Good luck OP, I hope things improve. 🙂

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Im shocked adults would trash tallk someone in front of a child!! This is a huge issue, no wonder these kids disrespect you! Monkey see monkey do! Your FH really needs to step up and tell his mother to shut her mouth in front of his kids!!! If he can’t man up then you should sit her aside and explain how this makes you feel Tell her you a would appreciate it if she would refrain from speaking negatively about you or your children in front of anyone else especially FH’s kids because it is creating a problem in your home!    Would even talk to the ex Wife.  You need to show these people you are serious and won’t put up with this nonsense!!  I wouldn’t give the ring back yet, first try to take matters into your own hands by speaking up for yourself. if that doesn’t work,  I agree with Hollyberry, seek counseling.  Good luck! 

Post # 6
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3429 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@been2long:  ok, but if he doesn’t …..then you should!  This situation is tricky for your FI.  I have no idea what it is about Mother in laws!  They can be real b*tches!!! I feel for you! hopefully he will address his mother and children so you don’t have to.  keep us posted! 

Post # 7
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Is there a reason why his three girls don’t live with their mother?  Can you give the oldest one the option? 

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