(Closed) GM RSVPed for himself and his male friend and no he's not gay!!

posted 4 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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1809 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@AirForceWife78:  I don’t see the big deal.. He’s probably just bringing someone to hang out with during down time.. If your FI isn’t bothered by it I’d just let it go..

Post # 5
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2550 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

if he’s a GM he should be able to bring a date. romantic date or friend, what do you care?

Post # 7
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1809 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@AirForceWife78:  Ohhhh so the GM has family there?? DH got annoyed by people trying to brig friends who were coming with their siblings and parents and cousins, so I understand that BUT he is a GM so if he wants to bring someone then just roll with it, you don’t have to put him at any particular table, it’s not his boyfriend lol 

Post # 8
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113 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

In my opinion, I don’t think it is a big deal.  I just want my guests to be happy and comfortable so if bringing a friend makes them happy so be it.  However, I can see how this is frustrating because now you are paying for an extra plate and you didn’t invite him with a guest.

Post # 9
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7090 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

I think the wedding party should always get a +1. It is a bit rude of him to just RSVP with a first without asking but if your FI doesn’t care I would just let it go. Is the GM traveling?

Post # 12
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1809 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@AirForceWife78:  Absolutely! I think that’s a fantastic idea! That way he sits with ppl he knows  and your seating plan isn’t interrupted 

Post # 13
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1583 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I don’t think it’s worth causing World War 3 over. Maybe he is uncomfortable coming alone. He should have asked before he RSVPed but what’s done is done. I would take a few deep breaths and try to let it go. I promise you will be so happy to get martied that you won’t notice on the wedding day!

Post # 14
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1641 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I really don’t see the big deal.

Post # 15
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145 posts
Blushing bee

@AirForceWife78:  normally dates for the bridal party don’t sit on the head table. that’s why some people (probably I will do the same) make sweetheart table instead of a head table. So Nick can go a guest table. so don’t worry and bring him in 🙂

Post # 16
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Sugar bee

Men don’t understand these things unless you tell them. It sounds like you’re making a mountain out of a mole hill though. 

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