i was with a group of girls a few months back and the topic of oral sex came up. everyone started talking about whether or not they liked being on the receiving end of it. some were talking about how much they loved it and how amazing it was... while others had the exact opposite opinion.
after talking to them i have had the chance to ask other people their thoughts on it and so far it seems to be pretty 50/50.
i'm curious... yay or nay?
That'll be a yippee-ki-YAY for me! Speaking of which...
I was a bit "meh" about it at times, but if it's "meh" then they're not getting it right.
Yay and Nay... I like it, it feels good... But it also grosses me out!
For me, it's one of those things that when it's good, it's amazing and when it's bad, it's just unbearable.
@VAwife: Could not agree more.
I'm a yay but it takes a while so sometimes I'd rather us do other things to get me there.
@SpecialSundae: I don't know... Unless my FI has freshly brushed teeth it's a deff NO... But also I don't like the fact that his face is so close to my uhh... balloon knot. I'm not dirty but it just weirds me out.
I think it feels good, but can't stand when he tries to kiss me afterward with that smell on his face! I can't climax from just oral, so I can take it or leave it.
Those that do not like it are probably with people who do not know what they are doing.... I personally love it
I don't usually talk about bedroom issues, but I'll speak up on this one because I feel like the prevailing opinion in media tends to be "YAY OMG IT IS THE BEST EVAR," and I don't think the other side is represented. And people tend to say "Oh, you just haven't had a good one."
I do not care for it. I don't think it's gross, I'm not at all weird about a guy being down there, I am not in any way a prude. I actually have some... less than vanilla... tendencies. It just doesn't do it for me because it is not ENOUGH pressure/stimulation. I know you can add other things to spice it up, but even with that, I prefer other things more. It would never get me over the top on its own.
So yeah - It's not really for me. If a guy LOVED doing it, I'd be fine with him doing it, but it doesn't get me going. I'm 100% fine without it in my life, and it's not because I'm all-missionary, all-vanilla. Exactly the opposite, actually. And yes, I have had it done well, thank you very much.
I'm cracking up at Artifical's "freshly brushed teeth comment"
I mean dying laughing over here!
I always used to hate it. It made me really uncomfortable because I felt like all of the attention was on me. I also didn't think it felt that great, I was ready to move on lol
BUT with my fiance it is amazing and I love it :-D
It grosses him out a bit and I can't say that it doesn't gross me out a bit as well. It feels good, but I'm happy to do without it.
I'd like to vote YAY but the reality is out of 3 lovers I've never REALLY recieved. A lick maybe 5 was about all I got. I'm certain I'd dig it, but just never really been one to insist upon it.
I love to give but not get. Which FI hates because he loves to give, I'm always just uncomfortable with it and I'm so anxious about it I can never enjoy it. :(
I have loved it with prior boyfriends (like 2 lol) but FI has a tied tongue and just can't really get it... but it's fine by me because he's way better in every other facet. Seriously. Seriously.
I don't like it for a number of reasons...1. it's too much 2. i can't reach my fiance and i like it when we're like, touching...um hello it's two people! 3. i know he doesn't like it.
I honestly prefer giving him a blow job because my body's next to his, and he touches me...yeah tmi lol omg bbq.
I hate it... I don't like getting or giving so it just doesn't happen period. It kind of makes me feel gross thinking about it lol. I just don't want a face that close to those areas... with all the things that could go wrong I'd be too afraid to relax..!
YAY!
but when im not in the mood, if he goes down anyway it's 50/50, sometimes i get in the mood, but sometimes i feel it's kinda gross.. i don't know why.
He's great <3
My FI loves it, but honestly it makes me kinda uncomfortable. I think it's kinda gross for him to be licking down there.
I'm a meh. I won't turn it down, but I don't need it to be happy wih my sex life. I've never cared about it really.
Definitely yay, assuming my partner is talented! If not it just feels...uncomfortable.
My husband is talented really loves to give it, too, so no complaints here!
My partner loves doing it. He'd stay down there for days if I didn't stop him haha. Every so often I feel uncomfortable, but I get over it as it always feels amazing. So yay from me!
A resounding YAY!!!! from me. I joke with DH that's why I married him.
I absolutely love going down on my gf, but I only really seem to get a BJ off her when she is drunk, although she has promised me the best one i will ever ever get on our wedding night..... and we have been together for 15 years, and still she has only let me come in her mouth twice, she says she doesnt like it so I wont push it, but for me, I like giving it more than recieving it.....
I am generally "meh" on the subject. The idea doesn't get me off.
I give my not-BF Bjs all the time, but I hate them and will never let him finish in my mouth, considering it will make me vomit all over him (not sexy.)
Oral sex doesn't do much for me. If we're not having sex, and I had to choose a form of intimacy that wasn't sex, I'd much prefer him just touching me. Fingering also does diddly for me.
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