going down… yay or nay? (possible tmi)

posted 1 year ago in Intimacy
  • poll: do you like receiving oral?
    yay : (294 votes)
    73 %
    nay : (92 votes)
    23 %
    other & explain please! : (18 votes)
    4 %
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    Honey bee

    That’ll be a yippee-ki-YAY for me! Speaking of which…

    I was a bit “meh” about it at times, but if it’s “meh” then they’re not getting it right.

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    Busy bee

    For me, it’s one of those things that when it’s good, it’s amazing and when it’s bad, it’s just unbearable.

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    4131 posts
    Honey bee

    @VAwife:  Could not agree more.

    I’m a yay but it takes a while so sometimes I’d rather us do other things to get me there.

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    Sugar bee

    @SpecialSundae:  I don’t know… Unless my FI has freshly brushed teeth it’s a deff NO… But also I don’t like the fact that his face is so close to my uhh… balloon knot. I’m not dirty but it just weirds me out.

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    Bumble bee

    YAY!  And FI loves to do it!

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    Bee Keeper

    I can take it or leave it. 

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    Sugar bee

    I think it feels good, but can’t stand when he tries to kiss me afterward with that smell on his face!  I can’t climax from just oral, so I can take it or leave it.  

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    1800 posts
    Buzzing bee

    Those that do not like it are probably with people who do not know what they are doing…. I personally love it

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    Buzzing bee

    I don’t usually talk about bedroom issues, but I’ll speak up on this one because I feel like the prevailing opinion in media tends to be “YAY OMG IT IS THE BEST EVAR,” and I don’t think the other side is represented. And people tend to say “Oh, you just haven’t had a good one.”

    I do not care for it. I don’t think it’s gross, I’m not at all weird about a guy being down there, I am not in any way a prude. I actually have some… less than vanilla… tendencies. It just doesn’t do it for me because it is not ENOUGH pressure/stimulation. I know you can add other things to spice it up, but even with that, I prefer other things more. It would never get me over the top on its own.

    So yeah – It’s not really for me. If a guy LOVED doing it, I’d be fine with him doing it, but it doesn’t get me going. I’m 100% fine without it in my life, and it’s not because I’m all-missionary, all-vanilla. Exactly the opposite, actually. And yes, I have had it done well, thank you very much.

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    Busy bee

    I’m cracking up at Artifical’s “freshly brushed teeth comment”

    I mean dying laughing over here!

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