(Closed) Going “Home”

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

No, thats definitely something to get worked up about! Why would they be mean to you? If they start being rude, book a flight to Pitt!

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2008 - Winery in the Gold Country

I think things might have a chance to be smoothed over because you’re going home to see your mom in person! Things don’t always translate well over the phone/email and often things are fixed between my mom and I when we’re just together and appreciating each other. Hopefully that happens for you too!

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Spending time with family should be fun and relaxing (although it usually isn’t)… just think of it this way, this is your last holiday to spend with your family as an unmarried woman.  Every holiday from here on out will have to be split among families.  If things start to get hectic, remind yourself (and your parents) that it’s important to focus on what’s important at the holidays, and that’s just being blessed enough to be together.  If all else fails, you can always rely on goodnight talks and ‘i love you’ from your FI.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I totally understand. My mom and I fight a lot, as we are just completely different people, but over the holidays I just try my HARDEST to suppress the urge to fight. My FI is normally my support too, but he won’t be there with me either. I really miss him over the holidays!

If you are having a hard time, call your FI at his place and just vent for a bit. You can make it through this last holiday at home!

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