- 5 years ago
Don’t get me wrong, most of you ladies are pretty damn awesome. But lately this forum has turned into a bunch of backhanded, rude and just plain mean comments and threads. That or the exact opposite, and no matter what anyone says someone jumps on them about how horrible they are for expressing their opinion.
I’m pretty sick of it right now, especially finding out there are entier other forums (not related or connected to the Bee or it’s parent company) that are made specifically for talking shit about Bees.
Things like calling other brides fat, or how bad her diy decor is, saying someones ring looks like a crackerjack prize, or like something a 12 year old would wear.
It’s Mean Girls for “adults”.
Yeah it’s okay to have opinions and such. I’m even okay with coming out and telling a bee when I think shes gone a little over her head into something diy, or that hey maybe you need to chill on the waiting thing because you might be getting creepy about it.
I’m thankfull to some of the Bees who have come out and said things about whatever weird ass theme I come up with that day (Girl…no..step away from balloon animals).
I mean seriously, it’s bad. And I don’t understand the idea behind it. Being snarky on occassion in private, where my opinion wont be heard by anyone it could effect is fine. Doing it on a public forum and then inviting one of the people you were being snarky about to join that group, is just mean spirited and shitty.
No I’m not going to name the forum in pm or otherwise.
There is a fine line between being opinionated and tactfully telling someone something they may not want to hear and just being a bitch.
So yeah. I’m taking a Bee break.