Post # 1
Have you ever done it? I confess I have….Most recently I went through his phone and it’s not something I am proud of, I never thought I would be THAT girl…but I guess I am lol. I was not happy with what I saw and I started screaming at my SO almost immediately. What I found to be strange was that my SO never brought up or even got upset that I went through his phone to begin with, I guess because he was busy trying to convince me not to leave him!
Share your stories…
Post # 3
I never go through his stuff. However, he totally shares with me, and I send him to look stuff up on my phone, too. We have nothing to hide.
Post # 4
I added more options to the poll 🙂
Post # 5
I have never done this; I feel it’s a total invasion of privacy.
Post # 6
I was looking for photos on his computer of us from a wedding we went to (I didn’t ask, but it was innocent) and found some racey photos of an ex. He wasn’t mad at me, but it did lead me to snoop in his phone. I told him later when I saw a message that I didn’t like. Turned out to be nothing and we have an open book policy.
Post # 7
- Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas
Unless he gave me something to worry about, I never would. And even if I was suspicious I’m not sure I would have the balls.
Post # 8
I never go through his stuff like that. If FH has something to share with me, he’ll either just show it to me or tell me where to find it. And if I’m using his computer I don’t snoop through his emails. I have nothing to suspect of him, and that’s an invasion of privacy.
Post # 9
I did something really bad and snooped to find out when/if he was proposing LOL!!! I don’t think I’d ever snoop again, he has never given me a reason regarding infidelity or anything regarding other women.
My ex, on the other hand, is another story. He gave me every reason in the world to snoop, which I did on the regular and always found something. Clearly, it didn’t work out!
If you feel the need to snoop, there’s probably a reason and if there’s a reason, you shouldn’t be with them IMHO!
Post # 10
We have access to each other’s phones and emails on a daily basis, but we never go through them.He knows not to snoop on my phone and email because he’s scared of finding wedding dress pictures 😛
Post # 11
I voted C. We’re free to use each others phones, which is good enough for me. Its our way of saying I’ve got nothing to hide, and if you see something you’re uncomfortable with let’s talk about it.
No need for additional snoopage LOL …the minute that changes then I’ll be concerned. So far so good.
Post # 12
Yes, I have.
My dad was cheated on by every woman he ever loved, and my husband’s best friend cheated on his wife, so I really don’t regret keeping an eye on it.
I trust him as much as I am humanly able to trust anybody, and he has never given me a reason not to, but I still take a look when I feel the urge. However, he isn’t totally oblivious to that, and he isn’t secretive about his stuff so I don’t think he would really care that much.
Post # 13
We share the same computer, a laptop and ipad. We use eachother’s phones on a regular basis. Neither of us have anything to hide.
Post # 14
I never have, but I would if I had strong feelings something was going on and I wouldn’t feel bad about it haha. If he is giving me a reason to question his loyalty then I think its totally fair.
We use each other’s phones and computers and such, but I’m not going through his texts/emails when I do.
Post # 15
We pretty much use each other’s phones interchangeably, send and reply to texts for each other while the other is driving and have given each other our email passwords so we could look something up for the other while we’re busy. So yeah…. on occassion I’ve read more than I “needed” to, but no I’ve never found anything suspecious and don’t care if he reads everything because there’s nothing there that he doesn’t already know.
Post # 16
We look at each other’s texts/emails. He’s just nosy and I HAVE to go through his stuff beacuse he’s too absent minded to tell me about dates or plans so I just read his emails and put things on the calendar/remind him about stuff. There is nothing that’s off limits for us and nothing to hide.
Over Christmas since I ordered his gift online I did tell him not to check my emaik for a while haha.