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Going wedding dress shopping for the first time tomorrow!

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    brunetteinlove    June 26, 2012   Columbus, Ohio

    I am so excited/nervous/scared to try on wedding dresses for the first time tomorrow! I think I know the stlye I want, but who knows! My goal is to try on as many different gowns till I find the style I like, then make a secind appointment to narrow it down from there! I am going to Davids Bridal with my mom. I am so close to my FI I kinda wish he could come too, but i have to leave a few things to the imagination since we are planning the wedding together. Plus I may have showed him my dream dress...so he has some idea.

     

    Do any of you ladies have any advice, tips or things you wish you did/didn't do on your first appointment? 

     
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    kaylee26    January 1, 2014  

    How exciting! I''m not at that point, so I don't have any experience yet.

     
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    asscherlover    August 17, 2013  

    @brunetteinlove:  Call ahead and make sure they have your dream dress (if its within budget). I went to a store that had the right designer and not the right dress and it bothered me the whole appointment that I could not try on the dress I wanted.

     
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    tksjewelry    June 25, 2011   Omaha

    Take as many pictures as you can.  I had picked out a dress that looked amazing in the magic wedding shop mirrors, but once I got home and looked at the pictures, I realized I looked like a giant square block.  I was horribly sad about that dress, but thrilled I had the opportunity to know before I made the purchase.

     
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    Anastasia Lelikova    May 15, 2012   Krasnodar region, Russian Federation

    So happy for you! Just try as many as you can and do take pictures if possible. If by any chance you are in a dress dilemma, we are all here helping you make your decision! LOL

     

     
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    cejo13    May 18, 2013  

    Don't limit yourself to one dress! I went in my first time with a 'dream dress' in my head and just couldn't fall in love with anything else. I finally tried on that dress at my next appt. and it didnt' flatter me at all - so I went back to square one, tried everything on again, and ended up realizing that THE one was a dress I had already tried on and dismissed at the first appt.

    Also, make sure that they complete each dress that you like with a veil. I was having a hard time saying 'yes' to my dress until I put my hair up and they slapped a veil and sash on me.

     
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    brunetteinlove    June 26, 2012   Columbus, Ohio

    @asscherlover:  the only place that has ny dream dress is Kleinfeld (it's a pnina tornai a girl candream right! lol) I am going to try on gowns that look similar. I mean who knows, it might be beautiful on the model, but not right for me. 

     

    @tksjewelry:  I plan on it! :) I'll look at the pictures later and see if I still feel the same about the dress as I did in the store.

    @Anastasia Lelikova:  You read my mind! I will be back & posting pictures to get the amazing bee's opinions! 

    @cejo13:  I am a little afraid the style dress I like, ok, LOVE will not look good on me. Well I don't know where you tried on dresses but I hope they don't "slap" a veil & sash on me! haha jk :)

     
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    asscherlover    August 17, 2013  

    @brunetteinlove:  I was in a different position because mine was in budget. I ended up going home and ordering it used without trying it on. lol I would not reccomend that route (buying without trying, buying used was a good option for me). And it worked out for me, but it would not have worked if I had not tried on similar styles.

     
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    Missido    August 4, 2012   Ontario, Canada

    So exciting!! Hope you had fun :)

     
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    GroovyHippieChick    October 20, 2012   My Happy Place

    bring water and a snack

     
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    kaylee26    January 1, 2014  

    How did it turn out?

     
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    ChiCityBride    October 13, 2012   Chicago

    I had about 13 dresses I liked, and made a day of it.  I did have a big posse (my mom, my dad, my FI's mom, and 2 bridesmaids) and we made 5 appointments in one day.  I picked the places based on the designers they carried, but I didn't ask tp make sure they had the specific dresses I had printed out.  

    I liked one at the first place a lot, but wanted to keep going becuase it was my first appointment ever.  Then at the 2nd place, I liked one more.  Then I had 2 misses.  And then, at my last store, the last dress, it was "it!" totally cliche, everyone crying, EVERYONE agreed, and that was that.

    I will say, even though what I brought in were a few different styles...all the dresses I would have been happy getting married in- were dresses I had printed out pictures of.  

    As far as tips- maybe TMI- but I'm a sweaty girl.  I brought deoderant and a towel to absorb sweat, a brush so I still felt good after pulling on my clothes, and my shoes!  Because I already had bought those :)

     

     
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    brunetteinlove    June 26, 2012   Columbus, Ohio

    UPDATE! 

    Hi ladies I have an update for you! The first time I went to tryon wedding dresses I tried on about 5 or 6 beautiful gowns. There were 2 I liked (one more than the other). I decided to make another appointment because I did not find "the dress". On my second appointment (a week later) I tried on the same two dresses I liked the first time. I eliminated one mostly because my mom liked it more than me & I didn't want to hurt her feelings. The second one i tried on, I still liked but was out of our price range (I will be doing a TTD photoshoot & can't imagine spending thousands of dollars on a dress I'm going to trash!). I tried on what had to be 8-10 sale dresses and finally found another one I liked!! When I tried it on at first I wasn't sure , but the more I looked at the dress & how it fit me PERFECTLY (I'm not kidding, even the dress consultant said I didn't need any alterations!). I tried on 4 inch heels and the rest is history. I had the veil & hair piece on, my mom was crying & I was misty eyed! I did not want to take the dress off! I was in it for probably 30 minutes just walking around, and checking myself out! lol. The best part is the dress was on sale for $349. The consultant (who was AMAZING by the way!) said it would be $50 off and the veil would be 10% off. She took the dress, veil & hair accessory I got up to the register to ring it up, and when my mom & I got up there she told us the price on the dress was not right; it was actually $150! All in all I got all 3 of the items for under $350, the origional price of the sale dress!!! I am dissapointed that my consultant did not get mre commision because she was so helpful, didn't pressure us on a more expensive dress and most importantly she was genuinely nice! I will post photos later. :)

     
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    Bernadette_love    September 15, 2012  

    lol, that's nice! Can't wait to see your pics!

     

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