Weddingbee boards

I'm on the fence right now, do you think gold jewelry or silver looks better with an ivory dress?  I'm a fair skinned gal, not porcelain or anything but I do plan to tan some for a golden glow in this last month leading up to the wedding. 

What do you think?  How did you decide for the ivory dress girls out there?

Are you warm toned or cool toned?  Warm toned girls look better in yellow gold and cool toned girls look better in white gold.  I'm warm toned and wear yellow gold for the most part (which is also why the ivory looked better on me - I'm very fair too), but since my wedding rings were set in platinum, I wore platinum diamond rings (e-ring, wedding band, and another diamond ring set in platinum on my right hand), a platinum diamond bracelet, with a pearl necklace and pearl earrings.

I guess I'm warm toned.  I look better in purples, reds, creams--basically fall colors I guess.  Put me in pastels or anything light in color and I look deathly.