Post # 1
I am going to go home and convince my FI to get married this January! not next!!! Wish me luck!! I just hope I can convince him!
He keeps saying we should just do the paper work here now and then go next winter…. well if I am going to get married I want to do it all at once. Or at least the paperwork a couple days to a week before not a whole year!
I am very excited about this idea. It is great for keeping my mind of other no so exciting stuff going on… So I am going to uber focus on getting this man to marry me sooner than later!!!
So excited! Thanks for listening 🙂 …. reading … 😀 tehehe
Good Bye Stress *wave*
Post # 3
Good luck! let us know how it went.
Post # 4
My FI convinced me to get married in June and not in 2 years…you can do it!!!
Post # 7
Lets just say… FAIL
We are TTC and he doesn’t understand that getting married next January (2013) with an infant will NOT work!!! I don’t want to take a baby on vacation with us. He suggests leaving it at home with his mom… are you FING kidding me?!?!!!?!?! ARGH. He just doesn’t get it! I highly doubt as a new mom that I am going to want to leave my maximum 7 month old child at home while I leave the country for a week…. not gonna work for me.
Plus he bought his stupid Turbo for his sled. So we don’t have the money. Which I said it was fine that he bought the turbo. We were pregnant at the time and I figured that could be his little gift to him self before we get into parent hood.So not a big deal. So then he says lets just elope. He knows that won’t work for me. I want the dress I want a bridesmaid I just don’t want to give up everything. I have already agreed to not having a dance and not having something here.
He is just frustrating me right now. Every time I bring it up he gets mad at me because “I am always changing my mind!” Seriously!! I have been changing my mind to try and get him to agree to something! Something that is feasable and do able! I don’t understand what is so hard about it!
He wants to go to the dominican. And that is the first thing that I suggested and he said no its too hot and all of this other crap, so I started thinking about other ideas and I suggest getting married in the mountains and I price a bunch of stuff out and what does he say”what about going some where like the dominican” ?!?>!?!?!!? ARE YOU FING KIDDING ME!!!
Sorry……. I am still really worked up. I will calm down and start thinking logically again… but right now I am furious.
Post # 8
It’ll work out! Maybe make him sit down and write things out with you, when you’re both calm. That way when he says “no” to A, you can remind him that A was his idea, for example.
Post # 9
We have always been really good at communicating our problems. We usually sit down and have a discussion and figure things out. But I have been really hormonal lately and I just can’t stop crying and it frustrates him. He can’t say anything to me in a harsh voice with out me bawling. I was doing the dishes and he told me I didn’t do something right and I started crying, for no reason and he gets really frustrated and it doesn’t help the situation. I think I just need some time to pass so I can get all of the extra hormones in my system out and think clearly again.