Good friends in the workplace: Challenging?

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1389 posts
Bumble bee

@leenh78:  .She did reply to your email just like she responded to the you tube thing.  She doesn’t have time to “swing by”.  You are making more of this than there is.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

i think you are overreacting.  however, is this normal behavior or new.  did she used to swing down and now since the wedding has pulled back a little.  maybe she doesn’t want everything to be wedding talk.

there are 3 guys in my department and 1 guy in another department who were good friends before they started working together.  they are still friendly, goof off sometimes, and though they are guys, when 3 of the 4 got married, they talked about wedding stuff since they were in each other’s weddings. 

 

Post # 6
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2474 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I think you’re overthinking this for sure. 

Post # 7
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5199 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

I don’t know if your annoying her with wedding talk or not, but if you think you are the easy soution is to talk about it with her less, and talk about other things (the things you guys talked about before you were engaged).  To me it just sounds like she’s really busy this week.  

I don’t have a policy on friends in the workplace myself, I just go with what’s natural.

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