- 5 years ago
- Wedding: November 2014
I was texting back & forth with my girlfriend today about how I was a little bit sad since my 7 year anniversary is coming up with my man. As some of you may know from my posts a few weeks ago, I had a bad waiting day a few weeks back and ending up having verbal diariaha to her husband (which is also his best friend) and completely unloading on him about my SO’s commitment issues and what not and asked for his thoughts – he didn’t give me any hope. Pretty much told me SO is waiting for everyone else to get married and for people to stop bugging him about it -which won’t stop. Needless to say, I was down in the dumps and have been a little down for the past few weeks, nothing crazy, not mentioning it to him but having my moments, you know?
Anyway, I text my girlfriend, which is his wife about how I’m a little sad still and she pretty much said “don’t listen to my husband, he doesn’t know anything” so I came back with, “You think so? They have heart to hearts all the time”. She simply wrote “Just trust me. and be good, please”
I may be looking WAAAAY too deep into this. But someone how that gives me a LITTLE bit of hope. My SO and I are both really close with our neighbours, they literally live right across the street from us and both of us couples hang out all the time. So if he were to have a ring, he would be hiding it over there because I am OCD on cleaning and tidying the house. And he would totally ask her to help him because she is a like a gatekeeper with secrets.
Even if I am looking way to deep into this, it makes me feel a little better.