- 3 years ago
- Wedding: June 2014
Hi bees… so i havnt been on the bee too much in a while.. trying to not focus on the waiting tooooo much. Anyhow, to give the edit- I have been with SO 4.5 years, living together 1.5… we are just buying a house so that is the focus right now, but I think a wedding is on the agenda next year (ish) SO also got a new job just recently – with some help from a certain recruitment expert (me).. all in all things are on track and finally we have some savigs from his direction.
We have a wealth of weddings this summer so the subject is bought up often….so… why was it a good waiting week?
back in December I decided to give a year deadline- 1 year until
- i am 30
- 5 year anniversary
- we should have bought a house
- Ducks are in line… as it were …
And I decided that if by the stroke of midnight- Dec 31st, 2013..he hadnt proposed, after these events had passed, I am going to propose myself, I have it all planned. And then we can plan to get married.. or he can say no (I would hope he would say yes, we talk about marriage a lot) eeeep
This week marks the half way point- 6 months since the plan, 6 months to go bees!!
And more and more I think he will beat me to it
In fact we have talked rings as I am such a jewellery obsessive- I picked something out just for a fun ring in the swarovski sale, and he was like ‘every time you mention rings I a putting IT back a month missy’ I was all ‘ummm this doesnt count… its just sale crystal jewellery.. ‘ HAAAA
so at least I know we are talking months now.. rather than years
Anyone else have a good waiting week? maybe we can cheer some waiting bees up