Post # 1
Found out last night that my FI has been lying to me over the last six months about paying our condo fees (his side of the finances) and that we owed over a thousand in fees, so basically they were not paid since we moved in. I found out about this yesterday when our property manager called me to threaten legal action. I took quick steps and paid off what we owe but he lied to me. Lied to me about paying the money. For over 6 months. So I decided to break off our engagement and work on our relationship/finances. So for now, and maybe a long while this will not be a tool, I will be needing.
Thanks for all your help bees,
Post # 3
Good luck, girl! I think you are being very mature and strong through this whole situation. Best wishes for you.
Post # 4
Sorry to hear that! That is terrible that he would lie to you. I think you are making a very wise decision in sorting out an issue as important as finances and deception. Those are very important factors in the foundation of a relationship-as you obviously know. Good for you.
If you feel like venting or talking about it, come back to weddingbee. You will have support if you need it!
Best of luck to you!
Post # 5
Sorru sceeder! Being lied to sucks in general, but being lied to about finances for six months is huge, in my opinion. Way to be strong and good luck!
Post # 6
So sorry to hear that. Glad you found out now, finances are a huge deal. Good luck with working through it.
Post # 7
I’m sorry you were lied to! However, as others have said, it’s better to find out now. Good luck working through everything.
Post # 8
So sorry for you! I hope everything works out for the best 🙂