Got this note in October. When the heck is "SOON"???

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Helper bee

Haha, I don’t know, but that’s really exciting!!  Have you guys talked about it much?  Do you have any timeline, even a vague one?

Post # 4
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Helper bee

Haha my SO would keep saying soon as well. Thank heavens we have a timeline though! Have you guys discussed a timeline? Sweet though.:)

Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

@MrsBuesleBee:  Lol I don’t know when soon is going to be, but if he is a man willing to write love notes like that to you, he is most definitely a keeper, and I would enjoy him until soon becomes today. Great guy!

Post # 7
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Helper bee

@megz06:  +1, love notes are the best and any man who gives one is a keeper 🙂

Post # 8
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

Such a sweet note!  It made me smile.  It is hard, because “soon” can mean very different things to different people.  However, in the meantime, try to just enjoy your awesome man and know that it will happen “soon”!!!

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

@MrsBuesleBee:  Aww, so sweet! My man says “soon”, too! But my soon and his soon are very different..(when I hear soon, I think right now! lol)

But I have to agree with the other posters…what a sweet note! Sounds like a keeper! 🙂

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I’d write a note back: “I love you too, maybe we should talk about “soon” soon.”

But I despise mysteries – and obviously this is a clue to a mystery – I need to solve them! Haha 😛

Post # 12
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Helper bee

AWWW… Cute note!! But yes, I can see how that can drive you mad haha. At least he’s romantic and sweet and seems to be planning a proposal (albeit “soon” is rather vague).

Post # 13
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

@MrsBuesleBee:  I love it when they bring up the future out of nowhere! And it does feel 10x better when you feel like you haven’t pressured them to do so.

It sounds like it will be happening soon and he wants it to be a surprise (my SO is the same way, so I feel your pain) He’s told me it will “happen soon, it’s in the works and I need to be patient” so I suggest you try and not bring up the topic and just trust that’s it going to happen (eventually).

I think the more you bring it up (and if he does want it to be a surprise) you’re going to risk pushing the proposal back or ruining a surprise that he’s planning 🙂 It sounds like you guys have a timeline established so that’s really great!

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@MrsBuesleBee:  I just melted. How incredibly sweet. I’m sure you’re bouncing off the walls. It sounds like he’s going to be proposing sometime in the near future, but that could be a month or within the next year. Hang out on the Bee to get out all your craziness.

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@CakeyP:  I like this idea. You can talk to him without pressuring him; just keep it light and romantic like the note.

ETA: Scratch that; I see from your update that the two of you have already discussed marrying in 2015. I would just let him do his thing.

 

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