(Closed) Grandfathers g/f- own invite?

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: G/F own invite
    Yes, make her feel included : (5 votes)
    36 %
    No, she can just be the 1+ : (9 votes)
    64 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    89 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    Do you have a good relationship with her? If so, I say definitely send it to her. It would probably make your grandpa happy on your big day, so that’s worth a lot! Plus, if she was invited to the shower and gifted you, then it seems like the tiff is sort of resolved, no?

    Post # 5
    Member
    711 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    If I was sure they were still together I would just send your grandpa the invite with the plus one and a small insert with his and her name on it. that way he knew that you wanted to include her – it would be weird to send her their own becuase she might wonder why you would not put her with your grandpa. That is what I did for couples that I knew werent engaged but would be attending together – I just made a small insert that went over the invitation with both their names on it.

     

    Post # 6
    Member
    2889 posts
    Sugar bee

    I would address his invite to both of them even though they don’t live together. I know this is technically not the right way but it seems stupid to invite them on their own if they are clearly together.

    Post # 7
    Member
    2889 posts
    Sugar bee

    I would address his invite to both of them even though they don’t live together. I know this is technically not the right way but it seems stupid to invite them on their own if they are clearly together.

    Post # 8
    Member
    5978 posts
    Bee Keeper

    I would invite her as the +1 on your grandfather’s invite. You can address it to him on the outside, and on the inner envelope, write his name and her name. Do you have inner envelopes? If not, then address to both but to his address.

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