(Closed) Grandma Issues

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Should we invite her?
    Yes : (1 votes)
    6 %
    No : (16 votes)
    94 %
    Other - explain below : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    Member
    701 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2004

    i dont think it matters if they are related or not. He doesnt have a relationship with her and that is all that counts. Do you really want to share such an intimate event with someone who doesnt even know you? i dont think you have to do anything you dont want to.. and dont feel guilty! just my opinion…

    Post # 4
    Member
    6065 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 2012

    I vote no. That day should be about having your nearest and dearest with you. You shouldn’t have to remove someone else you’d prefer to be there to invite her.

    What the worst she can do? Make a fuss about it to others…so that isn’t so bad.

     

    Post # 5
    Member
    5993 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2010

    i voted no – i mean he doesnt even know her name and that should be a prerequisete for anyone being invited to your wedding

    IF, and only if, he feels that he could make a bond with her in the future then i would consider it but thats a pretty big if

    Post # 7
    Member
    2053 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    @JandieMames: It seems all she is interested in is starting drama and getting an invitation. If she was sincere, she would contact FI directly and reconnect. She is making it all about her, how she is such a victim in this situation, the injustice of it all! Well, if she could see past her nose she’d realize there is more at stake and it is not just about her being invited. Stick to your guns.

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