(Closed) Grandmother passed

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Oh sweetie. I’m so sorry. My grandmother passed last summer so I understand what you’re going through. Cry when you need to. Know that she’s with you and that she loves you. Big big big (((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))). okay now I’m crying too. So sorry hon.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@Allyser: This made me cry, too.

I am really feeling for you right now. This is awful news, but I do know she will be with your spirit now and especially on that day. I second the big hugs and you’ll be in my prayers.

Post # 5
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

Both of my grandparents passed this spring within 6 weeks of each other.  I know how you feel.  Do know, that she is looking down from heaven on you and is surrounded with love and will be there in spirit that day.

Do like Bakerella said and cry.  Grief comes at odd times, and in waves.  I still get it to be honest.  Be easy on yourself and let yourself have some time to work through it.

Find one small way to honor her too.  That’s what I’m doing.  We are toasting them, their 70 years together at the reception, and thanking them for helping me become the woman I am today and for my sister becoming the beautiful mom, sister, and wife she is also.

Hugs to you during such a painful time.

Post # 6
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Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Honey, I am praying for you and your family. I know how devistating it is to not have your grandmother at your wedding. I am sure that she will be watching you on your very special day. My grandmother was my only granparent I had growing up and she just passed away… I am going throught this same thing too. Words can’t descibe how much I miss her and want her to be a part of my special day. I know that nothing I say can take your pain away or bring your grandmother back, but know that people are praying for you and are here if you ever need to talk.

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

FI’s grandmother passed away un-expected the other month, I know what you’re going through. We also had just heard her tell us about how excited she was etc.

Grieve, do what you need to do. If you need to talk, we’re here for you.

Post # 9
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3219 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Aw im so sorry to hear that. I’ll be thinking of you *hugs*

Post # 10
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’m so sorry.  My grandmother just passed last Thanksgiving.

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee

@Allyser:

I am sorry for your loss.  I strongly believe that she will be there in spirit.  My mom passed on a year ago, one month before my daughter’s wedding (her anniversary is next month) and I definitely beyond a doubt felt my mom (and my dad’s) spirits present at their wedding.  I am sure that your grandmother won’t miss it either.

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’m so sorry for your loss. My grandmother passed away 2 1/2 years ago and I still miss her. She helped raise me, she was like a second mother as she lived with me my entire life. I still think about her and know that she will be there with me on my wedding day. We are actually getting married at the same church her funeral was held at and I know that she will be there watching over us. I am happy she was able to meet my FI a few times before she passed. I could tell she really liked him and knowing that she’s happy for me makes this all more right.

Post # 13
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I’m so sorry for your loss!  My abuela (grandma) passed away last summer, right before we got engaged. She’s definitely someone who I missed not being able to share my good news with.  She liked my FI very much and would’ve been sooo excited for us.  I plan to honor her at our wedding. Hope you can find a way to honor yours as well. 

Take comfort in knowing she’s watching over you and will be there in spirit. My condolences to you and your family!

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