- 5 years ago
- Wedding: September 2014
I am in a sticky situation and really dont know what to do. i (32) am with my fiance(42) for 4 years now and he lives in his house with his parents and sister and her 25 year old daughter. the house is big and i love his parents.he is not a mama boy – he actually takes care of them – his father had cancer and is now 100% better and mother has alzheimers.
Now his sister and her daughter are another story – they supposedly dont have any money but go on shopping trips and vacations more than we do in 2 years!! On top of that they are total slobs and their room is piled up with boxes and bozes of stuff ( ever seen hoarders on tv?).
they only pay him a minimum of 300 rent including all costs. So i dont see them moving out ever. who wants to leave a place they can almost live for free?
I am supposed to move in. I currently live in an apartment paying 900 dollars. My fiance thinks i should move in since we should marry and start a family. But i am scared to – i dont want to live with his sister and her daughter. i hate them. would i have to clean after them? hell no
problem is, everytime i try to talk to my fiance about his sister and niece he actually defends them!! he said – well, if you move in i am sure they move out. i dont think so and dont know what to do. He complains about high electricity bills etc and when i say, well charge your sister more rent he defends her and gets angry,
the house is paid for (3500sf) and he does not want to buy another house only for me and him.
i also dont understand why his sister doesnt have the common sense of letting her brother have his chance of having his own family and move the heck out.
what should i do?????????