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Gross! Good thing I take my ring off every day to shower... and it is cleaned once a month.
Gross! Makes me happy I take mine off as much as I do! Mine has a high setting, and I always whack it on stuff. I take it off pretty much as soon as I get home.
Yikes! I take mine off at least twice a day to put on hand lotion. I can't imagine leaving it on to the point hat your skin grows around it! YUCK!
Yeah, every time I see a woman on here telling all of us that she NEVER takes her rings off EVER, I want to go "Do you even know what you are doing to your ring?!".
Heh, yeah, seeing my mom's ring and hearing about the removal process early on in life made me certain I'd never be the "ring always on" type! I only ever wear my ring when I leave the house (and not to the gym either).
When I worked in the OR I pulled/cut off some truly disgusting wedding bands. It is a rule that all jewelry has to be removed when having surgery, and often if it hadn't been taken off in 5+ years it was impossible to get off without cutting - so we cut them off before the patient was anaesthetized (so they were aware we would do it). Once, a lady refused to allow us to remove the ring so we cancelled her surgery!! But I digress, I have seen black goo, green goo, white fuzz, and chunks of skin come off from under those rings. One man had an abscess lining the area under the ring, and he had to have a surgery to debride the area.
So gross!! I make a point of taking my ring off every time I wash my hands to wash and dry the ring, and the area underneath it!
@Ms Mini: Oh gosh, that is so awful!! I would be way too squeamish to do that, or any other sort of doctor's job. That would probably make me vomit.
@veganglam: It is pretty nasty ... usually one of us (the nurses) would disinfect the ring, and take a few minutes to scrub the nasty finger with disinfectant at some point before we sent the patient to recovery. We made sure the patient saw the grossness under the ring before we put them under anaesthetic, hoping that they would learn their lesson!
OH wow! This makes me even more frustrated with the people who look at me like I have three heads or give a "tsk tsk" when I say that I take mine off every day. I actually don't really like wearing my engagement ring, I prefer to just wear the wedding band. And the second I get home it comes off! I never shower or sleep with any jewelry on, I've never been able to do that.
Ick! Makes me really glad I take mine off to shower, clean, wash my hands, etc.
this was posted on another thread, and i'll say the same thing i said there:
this article is dumb. all you need to do is clean your ring with a toothbrush and some dish soap every once in awhile! seriously, what's the point of buying expensive jewelry if you're never going to wear it?
YIKES! I think I need to forward this to my mom... I have never seen her take her ring off, and at this point she can't, really... it's too small for her finger, but she doesn't want to have it cut off and resized....
I'm glad I take mine off a lot...
Okay I never take off my ring except to clean it, but even if I never ever took it off, I have no idea how it would fuse to my skin. I constantly spin my ring around my finger or play with it. It's not like it's sitting immobile for skin to grow around it...
Just saying it is possible to leave your ring on and not have it grow into your skin.
i rarely take mine off, but I clean it frequently because bacteria loves crevices.
But that is just nasty! I'd like to add "jeans that fit 5 years ago" to this category, though.
@kitzy: There's a difference between "never wearing jewelry" and "always wearing jewelry". A lot of us just don't want to have our jewelry on all the time because it gets in the way and stuff, and obviously plenty of people are absentminded enough to forget to clean under their ring if they keep it on all the time--with devastating consequences. I don't want to turn into one of those people.
I don't see how the article was dumb. The jeweler was reporting on what is apparently an all-too-common occurrence: people abuse their bodies and jewelry by never cleaning their ring, watch, etc, never taking it off, or using harsh chemicals and corrosive materials while wearing the ring. It's a little FYI to all those people--and there must be a a whole lot of them--in the hopes that they reconsider their jewelry habits.
@gcwest: It isn't just about skin growing over it ... but what bacteria, fungus, and yeast grow under it! It stays wet and warm under there ... perfect environment for nasties to breed!
@gcwest: It's not always that the ring fuses to the skin. On many older patients, the skin forms almost a trench that the ring sits in, of calloused sometimes dead skin. Spinning it actually makes this worse. The ring still must be cut off, or the thickened skin cut away, to remove the ring. Sometimes both, in order to prevent infection because bacteria grows in the grooves.
Yikes! I hadn't thought about this. I barely ever take my ring off, I guess I will start to now! Thanks for the heads up!
So gross! I take my rings off often because I know what damage can be done but I never thought that people actually had problems like that!
This is one thing that worries me! i have very small fingers and I was scared to death that it would fall of my finger it too big because my finger gets a lot smaller when its cold. i know this is usual but the difference between hot and cold of my finger varies a lot. i decided that I would get the smaller of the two sizes and even now, even though it's not uncomfortable it does kinds look a little "trench-like" when i take it off--but only a little. I tried the differences in sizes between the small one i got and the little bigger one and honestly I was too worried to get the bigger one because of my cold hand, but when i'm warm this one swells up a little. Currently my ring is a size 5.25.
Any suggestions?
ETA: Also, I do take my ring off often to clean the ring, put lotion on, and dry underneath my ring. I think i could start taking my ring off at night so it wouldn't be so bad.
@SweetRose2011: My fingers swell up a bit in summer too so I had to get my ring sized to how it is in the cold and during the summer, sometimes it is so tight I have trouble getting it off. I don't think that will cut the circulation off though.
@MissAsB:yeah it doesn't hurt unless I'm super overheated, I was just worried about it getting nasty underneath, but I think if i keep taking it off to clean it'll be ok.
ewwwwww... i have to take my ring off all the time because i work with my hands, but i've left other jewelry on for long periods of time... never had that happen, but im not leavin stuff on anymore so it never will lol
I remember that article from a while back!
@Ms Mini: Gaaaah! That is so damn gross!
@figment: Ughhh!
I take my rings off all the time, when I'm cooking, cleaning, putting lotion on, anytime my rings are likely to get gunk stuck in or under them. To me that's just common sense. I don't have time to be scrubbing junk out of the nooks and crannies of my ring every time I do one of these tasks, and it takes just one second to take them off so they don't get dirty in the first place. It astounds me that so many women think it's better to go around with bits of grode encrusted on their jewelry than to take it off for a few moments a day.
Ewww! I take my ring off to shower and sleep. I worked at a jewelry store for some time and it was disgusting to see what came out behind people's stones when cleaning them. YUCK!!
EEEKKK I was just having issues with my ring and itching and irritation andhavent worn it for days and days and I am thinking how in the world can you just let something like that go and it not be a concern... i mean you have to notice it right.
I take my ring off all the time. I don't shower with it. I don't sleep with it. I don't do dishes with it. If I'm cooking something messy, it comes off. I can't imagine just putting something on and never taking it off! I even take my nose and tongue rings out to clean once a month!
i dont take off my ring unless i am cooking and have my hands in food, lotion, gardening, cleaning, or its getting cleaned (which is at least twice a month!) i wear it in the shower, to bed, etc. and i have never had any problems.... its just common sense people. i do however take out my earrings to clean them about once a week, same thing with my nose ring :) i take perfectly good care of my jewelry (and my body) even though i wear it 99 percent of the time.
I clean my ring myself twice a month (or less...it's kind of an as-needed thing) and obviously take it off for that. Other than that, I take it off if I'm cooking something messy, putting on lotion, or doing dishes. I've started taking it off in the shower as of tonight, because that article freaked me the hell off. I take my navel ring out once a week for a good sterilizing as well, though it gets washed every night in the shower.
Mine is off and on constantly throughout the day--skin growing around stuff is another one of my irrational fears. Did anyone read the article that was referenced on the link about the earrings--even grosser!
Okay... I worked at a mall jewelry store. And although there was an occasional person who came in with a really gross ring on, I never saw it happen as often as the article alluded to it happening.
That said, there is a good point made in the article. Jewelry has to be maintained. It has to be cleaned and inspected on a regular basis--even jewelry that is not worn on a regular basis. Prongs can become bent, stones and clasps can become loose, and metal can weaken. If jewelry is worn all the time, it can get dirty and crusty and fungus can grown in the crevisis.
I take my wedding rings off every day when I bathe. I also clean them a couple times a week. But I also have a pinky ring that I wear that I almost never take off. It's a 2mm white gold band. It sits at the first knuckle of my pinky, and there is a groove in my finger where it sits. Most of the time I forget it's there, but I do check it every once in a while, and so far it's been fine and so is my finger.
So never taking your rings off is not recommended, but you don't have to take them off every day. And they can be very durable with the proper care.
Sweetrose - I have that problem too. I actually bought the larger size and then use Ring Snuggies when my hands are cold. They are just a tiny piece of tubing that goes around the backside of a loose ring.
I only take my ring off while showering or sometimes if I know I'm going to get my hands really messy (like kneading dough, etc.) My ring is bad about trapping dirt/moisture underneath it, but I can't imagine how it would get as bad as some of these stories. I think basic hygiene should prevent most of these problems, along with admitting when your finger outgrows your ring...seems like this should be common sense.
Ehk. Reading this thread when it was first posted encouraged me to buy a toothbrush just for cleaning out my rings. Definitely worth it since I don't get my rings into a jewelers for cleaning once a month like I'd like. And the earring story....wow.
My FI always makes fun of me for cleaning my ring at least once a week. But I bar at work a lot and so my hands are constantly getting covered in milk, espresso, and whip cream. I also take my ring off to put lotion on and often to dry my fingers and underneath the ring so it doesn't dry out. So, really, me cleaning my ring a million times a month isn't such a bad thing after all. I could never imagine them having to cut it off of me.
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http://jezebel.com/5688752/jewelry-is-a-filthy-poisonous-business
A woman who works in a jewelry store tells many tales about the things she's seen people come in with thanks to their reluctance to remove beloved items of jewelry, refusing to acknowledge/seemingly oblivious to the fact that their bodies have grown too big for the jewelry or the jewelry is degrading. My own mother had her wedding band grow into her skin and had to have it surgically removed and cut off because she never removed the band on her own and her finger grew too big for it! Ladies, beware and be mindful of how your body is changing and what you subject your jewelry to!