Post # 1
I’ve always heard that the bride’s name goes first? Like the Smith-Jones wedding, with Smith being the bride. How about monograms- I have mine as Mine and His spelled out in full with an ampersand (for example, Jane & Joe), but my FMIL said that was tacky! Is that true?
Post # 3
I think usually the bride’s name goes first. As for making monograms, usually these are made with initials, not names. But it’s your decoration, do it however you want!
Post # 4
before the wedding the bride’s name goes first…Invitation, programs, etc. After the wedding, the groom’s name goes first…place cards, escort cards, Thank you notes, etc. Although, it is the year 2009…so who the heck cares who goes first 🙂