- 4 years ago
- Wedding: May 2014
We’re set to marry in February and though we started off with dreams of a super intimate wedding (practically eloping but having our mom’s and dad’s with us) it developed into a much larger, more standard wedding of about 45 guests. So…not huge…but much larger than we started off with.
The FI is getting very anxious and though he wants me to have a nice wedding…I want him to have fun and enjoy it too. I was thinking of cutting down some of the following in hopes to make him feel more comfortable – I do want some of the things we’re cutting but they aren’t so important to me that I’m willing to see him uncomfortable in order to have them
- no announcing us when we walk in the reception dinner – we can walk in with everyone else.
- everyone joins us on the floor for our first dance
- photography: no reveal (bummer as I wanted it) and no shots of him getting ready.
- Maybe no announcement that we’re cutting the cake? I’ll just tell our parents we’re going to do it and we’ll do it off to the side.
Can you guys think of anything else? He’s already compromising with me on having a 45 person, bigger affair so I want to do what I can to make him feel comfortable. He’s hesitent to speak up and tell me what he wants to cut because he feels guilty. Any help is very much appreciated!