Groomsman Frustration

posted 3 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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11668 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

it’s not the end of the world if he can’t make it to the rehearsal. It’s a wedding, not rocket science.  Anyone with half a brain can figure out that day where to stand and what they’re supposed to do.

 

Post # 4
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4441 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

@Itsallcomingtogether:  He’ll figure it out, my DH was at rehearsal (clearly) and he still screwed up on the day of!  It is annoying that he didn’t tell you, but what ya gonna do, some guys are just like that!

Post # 5
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11300 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

As a planned/type A person, the phrase “I’ll figure it out as it goes along” really gets to me. I can’t even. We have an unusual site/set up for our ceremony, so anyone who’s not at the rehearsal is going to kind of be screwed unless they pay SUPER attention to the people who were there.

Post # 7
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42472 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Itsallcomingtogether:  This could be good news. Make sure the best man plans the bachelor party for the first weekend when this guy is away with his Guard duties!

Post # 8
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11668 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Itsallcomingtogether:  It’s not worth getting upset about.  Would the outcome have been any different if you knew 3 months ago? The answer is probably no.  I know it seems like a bit deal, but enjoy the last month of planning instead of being upset over little things.  It will only ruin your experience for you!

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