(Closed) groomsman “joke”…MEN!!!

posted 8 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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3148 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Oh my goodness even saying that is hurtful…BUT its such a boy thing…fortunatley most of my FH’s GM are married already so they are excited for him.

Just get your man to talk to the boys this weekend and mention how much HE would not appreciate it (make sure to leave you out of the mix) Im sure they wont do it….maybe let them do it at the rehersal *laugh* ughhhhh boys.

Post # 4
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2589 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

Ugh. I don’t blame you for being bothered by it…at least your FH is talking to them about. Marriage is NOT a death sentence, and I cannot stand people who are so immature that they honestly think that way. GL.

Post # 5
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3219 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Most people take out the object part now that might be a good suggestion for you (maybe not tell the GM or your groom either). And as for the GM who wants to wear all black your FH should tell him that he wants him to be in the wedding but he needs to dress like the other GM and if he cant do that then he wont be able to be in the wedding.

Post # 6
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10367 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

I would be furious if they did that. I would actually be worked up the day of wondering if they were actually going to do it or not. Your FI really needs to stand up for your relationship and make it clear that those immature actions are totally unacceptable.

Post # 7
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543 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

They’re probably jsut SAYING they’ll do this. I agree with @Baileyh have him talk to his GM and tell them HE would appreciate it if they did not do this. They’re probably just giving you a hard time, but then again I dont know them. I just picture our GM chuggin beers. MORTIFIED haha

Post # 9
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2237 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

To be quite honest I don’t even really understand the correlation between objecting to your marriage and chugging a beer, but odds are they’re just messing around.

Do you get along with his friends?  Was someone recently married then divorced?  I find it that odd that they’re taking it that far…

And, make sure your FH really does talk to them about it.  I would personally be really worried if my FH’s closest friends objected to our marriage, and I would want to know why.

Post # 11
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860 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Those are such antiquated notions.  His funeral?? Really??  He can’t come up with anything better?

Are your FI and his friends also 22?  If so, I would just chalk it up to immaturity.  They probably won’t fo it.  I would be very clear to your FI that if they do that you are going to be pissed off, and you view it as disrespectful, etc.

Post # 12
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4547 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Just take out the “if anyone objects” part and no worries.

Post # 14
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2790 posts
Sugar bee

Wow. I would be pretty upset at even the mention of this. Why would they ever think that that would be funny!? Chalk it up to them being immature and just make sure the objection portion is taken out and maybe even try to avoid them having access to beer near the wedding time.

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