(Closed) Groomswoman pregnant – who checks in?

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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1297 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I’m sorry if this is a dumb question, but what do you mean by “checking in”?

Post # 4
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1986 posts
Buzzing bee

I’d let him deal with it 🙂 Just let her know her only “duty” would be to show up on the wedding day, and be prepared to make arrangements so she can nurse if she chooses to do so 🙂

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Oh ok hehe.  I would say since he is better friends with her, that he should be the one.  But, if he feels that he can’t do it because she is going through a ‘woman’ thing, then maybe you can just give her a call and let her know?

Post # 7
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6015 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

why don’t you do it?  I mean it’s one of his friends sure but it’s a few minute conversation … it’s not that big of a deal. 

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Maybe you can both call her. He can start out the convo and say that you wanted to make sure she is 100% stress-free regarding your wedding and hand the phone over to you. I would want to make sure he said the right thing/relayed the right information… but that’s just me!

Post # 9
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1025 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I would say let him do it, with the acknowledgement you’re both rooting for her! I just think that it’d be easier if he did it, because she might feel like she’s getting pressured from “the bride,” you know? I think it would be easier to tell a groom that you want to back out than a bride. Granted, when one of our groomsmen backed out he told me first, so its probably not a huge deal either way.

But if you want to get closer to her, it’s a good way to start!

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