- 5 years ago
- Wedding: November 2012
Okay, so I’ve mentioned before that both sides of our families have been going through ups and downs. Fiance’s brother is in prison past the date of our wedding, so he’s out as a best man. My two male cousins have uncharacteristically dropped off the face of the earth, and I think one of them might be in a mental institute because he was in one last year and usually he responds to my calls and texts and his phone has been off for the past few months…
The only person left of this group of 4 is my fiance’s childhood friend. But that leaves one groomsman to my 4 bridesmaids. We were talking about this and I asked if he would consider asking his favorite cousin and our female friend that he’s known since high school. The wedding is in a month, would now be too late to ask them? Otherwise I was thinking about just having one or two of my BMs on his side to balance it out or something…I really don’t know.
I’m also really frustrated because we originally didn’t plan on having a bridal party. The only reason we did is because of our moms’ insistence and now all our family members have more or less dropped out.