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I was sleeping over at FI's apartment last night, and I got up to use the bathroom in the middle of the night. As I sat down on the toilet (heh... TMI?), it was wet and sticky! I jumped up and realized that someone (FI's roommate) had puked all over the place and hadn't cleaned it up. I should have noticed the smell right away before sitting, but it ALWAYS smells in there. Then, all I could do was try to splash water and hand soap onto my legs from the sink because their shower doesn't have a removable head and there were no clean towels. I couldn't even clean the toilet to pee because they don't have any cleaning supplies! (FI has been struggling with money and the roommate just doesn't clean)

I'm living with my parents to save on rent, but the atmosphere there is very trying, so I often come over here to escape, but IM GETTING SO TIRED OF THIS PLACE! It's always dirty and smelly and nobody does their dishes or cleans the kitchen so FI and I have to ALWAYS eat out b/c we're afraid of the kitchen (and we don't have the money and cheap fast food is making losing weight really hard). FI would clean up after his own messes (and he does), but the roommate is sooo messy (Plus, they have a guy crashing on the couch - rent free - who adds to the mess)

AHH! I can't wait until FI and I have a place of our own! I don't think I can wait nine months until our wedding!!!

Sorry for the vent, I'm just still really grossed out. After the bathroom/puke incident, I couldn't get back to sleep and I'm way tired today.

That is awful! I know how this can be (not to that extent though). I would buy the boys an apartment present: a bucket filled with cleaners and gloves. I would also suggest for future sleepovers you bring some things just to be prepared. Throw a towel, some extra clothes, ect into a bag that just stays there so you will be prepared for disasterous situations like a vomit toilet.

I honestly would give in and help clean the kitchen. Eating out every meal has got to be old.

Thanks ladies. Yeah, my biggest question is: Who the heck pukes in the toilet without raising the seat!?

@ JoesWifey: I have considered getting a place together, believe me. But, I don't have a job and FI is struggling, so he relies on said roommate to make rent. Without his half, we couldn't afford it. But as soon as I get a job, SOMETHING has to change.

@ Remi: I HAVE helped clean. In fact, one time I got so fed up with the kitchen that we spent an entire afternoon scrubbing it. It was a huge job. Then, we left a sign by the sink saying "If you use a dish, clean it - by the end of the day" to keep stuff from piling up. It worked awhile, but not long. I would basically have to be there all the time cleaning up after people because every dish, the crumbs from every meal, the grease on the stove from everything cooked - nothing gets wiped up or cleaned.

@ Bamboo: Yeah, I've been meaning to buy them cleaning supplies, but it's not really a matter of not having supplies (except for this one time since it's been so long and FI hasn't had a chance to pick some up), but simply that nobody cleans up after their own messes. I usually bring a towel, clothes, and shower stuff with me, but I don't even like showering in there with my own stuff b/c it's gross.

UGH this stage needs to END

@ rungurl10: oh MAN! That's awful. I'm certainly grateful that this is not that bad.

Im currently looking to see if there's anything that FI can afford right now on his own until I can get a job and move in.

So gross! I hope your situation improves and you're able to get a place together soon!