(Closed) GRRRR!!!! Vent about coworker/wedding guest (sorry, long)

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee

Sounds like this didn’t happen out of the blue.  I think some feelings have been festering, especially for him to blow up.  If it was the first time, he’d probably just observe, “Huh?” and shrug it off.  Or mention it casually.

When you alk on Monday, just try to make sure he understands you aren’t tyringto undermine him.  That you value his efforts.  you know the “we’re all on the same team” speech.  But then just give him time to let it sink in.  It’s his issue to deal with.  Try not to harbor bad feelings yourself, though.  it’ll make it harder for the two of you, to reconcile.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

It’s so totally the promotion/raise thing. I’d be kind of bitter too but I’m not a child so I wouldn’t publicly be a d**k to you in the office. I’d probably just keep my bitterness to myself and put on a happy face. Still, though, that’s totally obnoxious and I would be with you in wanting to disinvite but you totally can’t, especially since you’re inviting the whole office. I work in a tiny dysfunctional office, too (think: The Office) and this is exactly why I’m not inviting anyone from work. Well, that and I don’t like anyone I work with…

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