grudgy/new family-Advice? Rant.

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 3
712 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

Your SIL feels threatened by you, so that is why she is sabotaging. I have dealt with catty and jealous bitches my whole life. If she plays dumb when you try to discuss it, try to keep her at an arm’s length so that she can’t use information to sabotage you.

It must be a huge letdown to be engaged and have the people who pressured you act so cold.

Just try to enjoy your special day as much as you can.

Post # 4
226 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

That’s odd behaviour alright. About the lack of smiling in photos, my dad wasn’t smiling in some and I wonder if he’s unhappy or being a snob. 

About the sister in law, competitive bitches don’t change in time. My solution to all this is usually cutting theM out of my life. I don’t compete back.

Why not give the cold shoulder back to the family. Don’t reward their shitty behaviour like as if nothing happened. Alternatively, if you have nothing to lose, ask them directlyi what their problem is. Tell SIL, that she’s being competitive and all the other stuff she did and thar you have no time for people like that. Ask your FIL if he was trying to use your photos to convey what he thinks about you and your family because he did not smile. Just be upfront and take them by surprise and take no prisoners! Then live your life the best you can and be happy without them.

Post # 5
143 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

@souza_2005:  Keep your SIL at arms distance honestly, her being competive with you is her way of showing she’s threatened. Honestly, I’ve dealt with it before (FSIL is like that a bit too)

Just keep your head up and think of the positive aspect, you’re married!

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