Guest List Issue (Need Advise)

posted 2 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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1362 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Turf Valley

So your sister inadvertently invited her SIL, and is mad at you for saying no?  Sounds like her problem, not yours.

Sorry that the in-laws backed out this close to the wedding.  We had some people back out close to our date, too.  It sucks, but what can you do?  

Post # 4
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21 posts
Newbee

Your sister needs to suck it up, she invited the sis in law to the wedding so what’s the problem. Your wedding day not Hers. I’d tEll her ask u heR as much too!! 

Post # 5
Member
260 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Carlamay24:  at this point, assuming finances/capacity aren’t an issue… just let them come, and let it go.  It’s too close to the big day! Clearly, if they are so eager to just invite themselves, they must be a little excited about it??  Just focus on why you are really there- to marry your love- and let them do what they are going to do.  You don’t need to talk to them much- you will be so busy, you might get a few words with them and that will be it.  Don’t burn any bridges with your sister right before the wedding either- never goes well.  Just focus on  YOU getting MARRIEDDD 🙂 and the two of you can duke it out after the fact if it’s really needed.  

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