Guests inviting others (vent)

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
Member
1639 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@jeg14:  Your final comment was a nice tactful way to tell people “NO”. Also I’ve ready “Sorry but we can’t accomdiate that request”.

Let the cousin and his wife know they can not stay at your home. You don’t need to say why but say “the home will be unavailable for you two to stay”.

You will find this will happen a lot.

Just continue to say “we are still finalizing our guest list” and send out formal invites to those who you want to. If people complain, tell them nicely “no”.

Post # 4
Member
8110 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

You handled it the right way. These guests were unbelievably rude. You can take some comfort in knowing that there  are plenty of people out there who would never dream of doing something like that.

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