Guests inviting strangers….

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
1864 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I would give a BIG FAT NO! 

How freaking rude can people get!! 

Post # 3
600 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014 - Historic cinema

That is SO RUDE!!!! Do not let them come or they will think they can get away with anything! Grrr! Am so angry for you!

Post # 4
8680 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

I would personally contact them and tell them that you will be unable to extend the invitation to their sons fiances parents.

You really don’t need to explain yourself on why. They were really rude to write extra people on there.

Post # 5
657 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

What the …. how can people think they can add extra random strangers to your wedding. I don’t get it. Say no!

Post # 6
453 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

I too, would just call them and say that you are really sorry but you will not be able to accommodate the cousin’s, FI’s parents. Just leave it at that. 

Post # 7
5697 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

No way in hell would I let that fly. I’d send an email saying, I appreciate you wanting to bring someone but no.

MAN that is rude!

Post # 8
943 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

lildolly011:  Ridiculous that they had the nerve to invite someone who was NOT invited, but also that they RSVP’d “maybe” for the others!

Post # 9
1931 posts
Buzzing bee

Hell. To. The. No. How rude can you get? Call/email them and say that they get EXACTLY the number of seats that you reserved for them. Ugh. People. 

Post # 10
1049 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Definitely a no! If you let one person get away with it, your opening a flood gate!  These people have absolutely zero right to come to your wedding.

Post # 11
42089 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I would just call them up and tell them that there must have been a misunderstanding, and that you are not able to accomodate any extra guests. It really was inappropriate of them to even suggest it.

Post # 12
557 posts
Busy bee

That add on doesn’t even make sense…like, in most add-on situations you can at least see where the person is coming from, even if it is rude. but son’s FI’s parents??? thats just out in left field.

Post # 13
6963 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Oh my…yeah that’s rude .I’d have FMIL/FFIL call and explain that these extra people cannot be added.

Post # 14
2831 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

that’s just so random. how on earth does that even make sense? if i had a daughter who was invited to a wedding of someone i don’t know, i wouldn’t want to go. it’s just weird.

Post # 15
1319 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

people have no manners. absolutely not

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