- 6 years ago
- Wedding: November 2012
In order to avoid a wedding for 200 at home, FI and I decides to have a destination wedding for immediate family and close friends followed by a party back home. We keep saying the small ceremony is for us and the party at home is for everyone else.
Word is starting to spread about our plans. Today, someone told my FSIL that she was going to come and attend the ceremony whether she was invited or not. I can also think of a few friends who would plan Disney vacations around our wedding and say they’ll just attend the ceremony.
How do we handle the people who invite themselves? Especially if they’re telling others that they’d like to come and not us!