(Closed) Guy I dated got married

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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3587 posts
Sugar bee

I can only give a virtual hug. Things will get better. 🙂

Post # 4
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14 posts
Newbee

There is someone out there for you, too!  You’re right in that you should start dating again…then you’ll have more opportunities to meet him.  

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Obviously your prince charming is still waiting for you too. it is common to hear but obviously he wasn’t the one for you. Hang in there and focus on what you are blessed to have. Happy guys are attracted to happy gals. Keep your chin up! 

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

Many virtual hugs to you honey!!!!

Your guy is out there….and in the meantime you have a GREAT life.

And a dog. I’m jealous….

So much going for you, I just have to say please have faith. Have faith that you are a wonderful person and some guy will be CRAZY about you.

Post # 7
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536 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Sometimes it isn’t best to stay in contact with people you used to date.  When you do find out that they are with someone new or are married, you will probably be surprised at how upset and disappointed you are.  You may think you are totally over it until it suddenly pops back into your life. 

Don’t feel bad for yourself.  Be happy and get out there and date!!
And remember, you don’t want a guy who smokes like a chimney anyways.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

okay, this is completely petty, but it’s what I did when a similar thing happened to me:

You know that guy is NOT perfect–in fact I bet you can think of a few of his flaws. Go ahead and think of them. Now think of a cuter guy who doesn’t have any of those flaws at all.

He’s out there, and he’s single–a quality fish just like you.

 

Post # 10
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397 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

(((HUGS))) to you! Lots and lots! That guy who’s right for you is definitely out there,so  keep the faith! (as JBJ says, hahaha) 😉

Post # 11
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Bumble bee

33 is not bad at all! i met DH at 32, i thought i’d never get married because i couldn’t seem to meet anyone! so you never know when you’ll meet the right guy!

Post # 12
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Been there too, my ex got married within a year of us breaking up. I can understand why you’re feeling like this, but he obviously wasn’t the one for you. It seems you’ve got everything else sorted so when you do find that special someone you’ll have all the pieces to your jigsaw. ((x))

Post # 13
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1641 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Please don’t establish a timeline for yourself! i’m 44 and just got engaged. I had several long term things that just didn’t pan out, including living with someone for 6 years.  Now I have the most wonderful guy and am incredibly lucky. It took me a long time, but it did happen. If you are open to it, it will come!

Just don’t stick to the wrong guy, hoping it will happen. This guy wasn’t for you, but someone out there is!

Post # 14
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443 posts
Helper bee

Hang in there!  I know that things will get better!!

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

Ughh I don’t know why these things affects us, but they do. But I’m sure you’ll get over it soon. I’m rooting for you and that  perfect guy designed just for you, you know he’s out there.

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