Guys, I've been lying to my fiance :( …

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
2571 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@BurlapnLace:  Aww, I have done that a time or two… Little white lie about the gym.

I also have told him I ate healthy for lunch when I really headed to the nearest fast food joint.  He actually found the bag in the trash when he was looking for papers he’d accidentally thrown out and when he saw it he was really hurt I’d lied. 🙁

Post # 5
1666 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

@BurlapnLace:  It’s ok. Most people do stuff like this even if they don’t want to admit it.

Most recent would be telling him I’m cool with getting fast food for lunch when I really just wanted something that wasn’t greasy. Lol! We don’t get it too often though and he was excited; I can’t say no to his adorable face!

Post # 6
557 posts
Busy bee

I have said I spent time with my horse at the barn when I didn’t when we first started dating. Sometimes I just wanted some time to myself at my apartment in my pjs…and he is so active I would feel bad so if he asked if I went out and rode my horse I would just say yes. not proud of it, but definitely no harm done.

Post # 7
5222 posts
Bee Keeper

@BurlapnLace:  I just LOL’d at the crossfit= obsession connection. I have several friends who are so insane with CF that it is literally the only thing on planet earth they can find to talk about. 


I am all for working out, but holy crap those people take it to a whole new level!



Post # 8
2792 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@BurlapnLace:  I don’t tell my FI about how unhealthy I have been eating… I’m trying hard to stop my chocolateholic ness, but it’s hard.

Could you take up gym-pact, runkeeper or Myfitnesspal and be friends on their?  My FI is on my fitnesspal with me, and when we were both doing it daily, it was a great motivator to see the other on it as well. 

Post # 10
2395 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I go for Dunkin’ Donuts sometimes on a day off (when he’s at work) and hide the evidence 😉  I finally admitted it last week and THEN HE TOLD ME HE DOES THE SAME THING!!!  We both totally cracked up.  

Post # 11
9019 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@BurlapnLace:  I’ve may or may not have left out a snack or three when discussing what I’ve eaten for the day with my husband.  I feel compelled to say, “All I had all day was a carrot and a Lean Cuisine for lunch.”  Lol.  I don’t know why, not like he asks.  I guess I don’t want him to think I’m a pig at dinner for no reason.  😉

Post # 13
643 posts
Busy bee

@BurlapnLace: He sounds really dedicated, so maybe he can help to re-motivate you!

I forgot a lunch today so I mentioned to my partner that I was going to buy one. He asked what and I replied, oh, probably a sub (which isn’t even that healthy). I bought Thai and it was wonderful! If I told him, he’d expect me to bring some home for him, lol. 

Post # 15
473 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

“What? This ring? It was like $150 $20! I know right? Bargain!” 😉

Post # 16
851 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013 - The front lawn of our church

@BurlapnLace:  I’m not self-righteous, I’m just honest. I want DH to be 100% honest with me… If that’s not your relationship than that’s great for you:) I’m not here to judge anyone else. 

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