- 4 years ago
Hello Ladies!<br />Posting again under my anon account. I received so much great advice the first time around that I know yall will have some great advice again. So I mustered up the courage to go in for a well-woman/papsmear/Birth control/Pelvic Exam today,partly due to the encouragement of a great friend of mine. I had been reading up a lot on the topic of sex, just trying to get adjusted to the idea, before the wedding in December, and I felt like I was making great progress from a mental standpoint.
<br />The OB/GYN herself was excellent! No complaints. I had mentioned wanting an IUD-Mirena or Skyla, which we discussed, but she mentioned she would like to do a pelvic exam first to see how I do. LADIES-It was so incredibly painful. I wasnt ready for that kind of pain..:( I am in no way angry at the Doc, she did an excellent job. But needless to say, my hymen is fully intact, and she could only get a finger in…
<br />I feel so sad ladies. I’m waiting due to my faith, and Fi’s as well…But its quite obvious we won’t be able to consummate on our wedding night. Sigh. The Gyno told me that I’d definetely need to take it slow, and it would probably take a couple of tries before an erect penis could fit. She put me on Generess Fe and sent me on my way. On one hand, I’m glad I know what to expect sex-wise, and that I truly am fully virginal. On the other hand, I feel raw and just down about the whole topic of sex. That level of pain just felt so unbearable ladies…<br />Any words of advice, anything I can do between now and December to help me not dread the Wedding Night?
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