Hair Trial Drama

posted 2 years ago in Beauty
Post # 2
Member
110 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I understand you want to be nice and don’t want to let anyone down and be rude but its the first girl’s job to do hair as you wish. You should have said that you didn’t like it straight… I guess there is nothing wrong with saying you will go with someone else! Hair is surely important for any bride!:-)

Post # 3
Hostess
2920 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

You have to stick your ground here. DO NOT sacrifice your hair on your wedding day. You found someone else you like better for a better price. End of story.  Tell her you’re sorry but that you feel more comfortable with this girl because she is a family friend or something. Don’t let her feel bad. She might be a friend of a friend, business is business…she already took enough of your money. Move on and don’t look back!

Post # 4
Member
253 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

xxallurebridexx:  Go with your friend. This is your hair, your day, you don’t owe her anything. It’s harsh but it’s true.

Post # 5
Member
1432 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

You didn’t have a written contract and you are giving her plenty of notice. I say it’s fine. 

Post # 6
Member
8821 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

I agree with the others, just be firm.  You’ve already paid her more than enough (too much IMO) for the trials. You weren’t happy, but she has been paid for what she did.  She didn’t have to go and book the day off, she never made you sign a contract. Simply thank her for her time and tell her that you going with someone else.

Post # 7
Member
42472 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

You already said it : I texted the first girl and thanked her for her time and said I decided to go with someone else.

If you feel the need to respond, I would just say “|I’m sorry you took the day off in the abscence of a contract, and I hope you find other work that day.”

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