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Hair Trial - Matronly or Classic?

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    meggles    June 6, 2009   UK

    I had my hair trial this past Friday - and while I liked it during - I feel blah about the photos.  It's exactly what I asked for, and very close to the pictures I showed her, but I can't help but feel matronly.  Not the look I was going for.  But then again, I am wearing a slightly "out-there" (my mother's words) feather/beaded fascinator, so perhaps they balance each other?  (there are 2 fascinators that I'm debating between)

    I've scoured project wedding & weddingbee for hair photos, but nothing "speaks" to me. 

    I'd love a second opinion?  Is the hairstyle classic or matronly? 

     
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    mary-alice-me    May 24, 2009   Kentucky

    Do you have pictures?

     
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    MsHymanRoth    October 24, 2009   Boston

    Have you tried taking the test of what kind of bride are you on brides.com? They have really cool hair photos!

    I still have to pick out mine, but I think I'm going for a classic updo that's ... big and poofy. Lol. I like volume.

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    meggles    June 6, 2009   UK

    Sorry!  Only just realized that the files were too big.... trying again!

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    meggles    June 6, 2009   UK

    Another one without any fascinator..... I do like the subtle swirls...

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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    omg i love it! It's classic and vintage, not matronly! The fascinator makes it very very chic. I like the bigger one...the smaller one kind of looks like ribbon on a present, sorry. The more "out there one" is way more gorgeous!

     
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    EAQ219    May 22, 2010   Bethesda, MD

    I think it looks fantastic! My only suggestion would be to give the top some height. I'm not a hairdresser so I have no idea how one would go about it, but I'm sure your person could do it. What they've already done is really nice :)

     
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    cheese    May 2009   Knoxville

    Oh!  It's beautiful, and not matronly at all!  However, if you feel it's matronly, even just a little bit, then I'd suggest minor changes... you don't want to be thinking about your hair on your wedding day.  Really. 

    {But I think it's pretty effing rocking.}

     
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    mary-alice-me    May 24, 2009   Kentucky

    I think your hair looks great! I'm sure with the dress it'll look different than with regular clothes. I think it's pinned up to be loose and romantic, not matronly. I do agree that some pouf in the top would make it look more "bridal" and less ordinary from the front.

     
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    BeachBrideT    5/09   Florida

    Wow!!! After being through 2 hair trials with two different people already, I think your hair ROCKS. I don't think it looks matronly at all-- its very sophisticated and elegant and classic, yet a little modern. I really, really like it.

    My one suggestion, which might make it feel less matronly from the front is to add a little volume to the top. Your hairstylist will tease the top portion of your hair slightly, and then the front part will cover the teased area, creating a little volume. Remember that most of your pictures will be taken from the front, so you want to be able to see "style" from the front.

    I think its worth the money for a second trial so that you aren't anxious about your big day, but I think your hair looks great in the pictures! 

     
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    mschampagne    February 2009   DC/Vail, Colorado

    I think that's really pretty! With or without the hair piece, you'll look fantastic if you FEEL fantastic. Go with your gut- if you want to change it, I would. But truthfully, I don't think you need to change a thing!

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    quirkyparsnip    October 1, 2011   Texas

    I love it. I kinda feel like the hair pieces cover up the good parts of it though. I think if they were attached to one side they would look better.

     
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    Miss Marshmallow    August 1, 2009  

    i think it looks good and i don't know if you're asking for opinions on this or not, but I really like the smaller fascinator (with fewer feathers)

     
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    monitajb    July 17, 2010   Sacramento

    I never would have thought matronly. It looks good, and looks good on you (most important part).

    BTW, you have a tough choice with accessories. Several of those looked really good, and that is a great hairstyle for fun accessories. I would seriously consider have two: one for the ceremony, one for reception, or even just the dancing, if that fits your event.

     
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    MissCamera    August 1, 2009   Upstate NY

    I don't think it looks matronly at all. It looks beautiful-- I LOVE it. It's similar to Mrs. Cherry Pie's wedding updo. I say go for it. It looks great with your fascinators! I also like the smaller one with less feathers if you want an opinion on that too.

     
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    MissCamera    August 1, 2009   Upstate NY

    I don't think it looks matronly at all. It looks beautiful-- I LOVE it. It's similar to Mrs. Cherry Pie's wedding updo. I say go for it. It looks great with your fascinators! I also like the smaller one with less feathers if you want an opinion on that too.

     
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    rosychicklet    September 27, 2008   Boston, MA

    I don't see matronly at all- with the feathers, your dress, and makeup, you will be a hot bride!

     
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    CaitlinRivera    August 14, 2010   Seville, Spain

    Your hair looks soooo pretty! I prefer the 2nd hair accessory, although both are pretty!

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    knm011610    jan 16,2010   San Antonio/Houston

    OOOH I think its so cool not matronly at all but i do think some poof on the top would make it look alittle better in my opinion... but i do love it!!!

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    Jessie516    May 16, 2009   Ann Arbor, MI

    I think the style is really pretty.  I love the feathers--vintage but modern.  :) 

     
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    Erindesmar    October 17, 2009   Boston, MA

    I think it is beautiful and not matronly at all!  But, to make yourself feel more sure, why don't you do another trial with a different style.  Aside from looking gorgeous you need to FEEL gorgeous and it doesn't sound like you are too happy.

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    Chela429    3/29/09   Long Island, NY

    I don't think it's matronly, it's very pretty in fact. 

     
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    I think they look nice together.  If you feel it looks too matronly, could you soften it up by having some soft whispy curls framing your face?

     
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    MaybeeBecca    August 22, 2009   Kansas City, MO

    I think it's beautiful! Classy and not matronly at all :-), though I do like the idea of having a few curls around your face to soften the front a little.

     
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    gracez    December 2009   Northern Virginia, but getting married in TX

    I think it's beautiful!  I might have to try this look myself!

    BTW - how long is your hair?

     
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    bellenga    July 31, 2010   Georgia

    It's beautiful..again, maybe some height would be great..How about doing some va va voom makeup?  Think classic.  Like how Drew below channels Marilyn and her hair is a bit bigger but soft..and of course, Audrey (her look would look GREAT with  your look) for a makeup style to compliment that hair.

    For makeup, think defined eyebrow.  Defined features.  Well-defined lip.  Cat eye looks great btw!

     If you opt for some bigger hair, I do like Drew's style. 

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    I LOVE the big feather fascinator. I think it looks elegant (the hair). You might wanna spice it up in the makeup dept. maybe that's why it looks too matronly to you. 

    Fresh, youthful makeup will make all the difference! 

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    maureen9004    August 2008  

    I loooove it.

     
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    Brazilian Bride    09/01/2010   Brazil

    I just loved the second fascinator.. and the hairstyle is amazing! Relax, you look young and fresh!

     
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    ilovenycmissie    September 2009   nyc

    I actually love the back, she's an amazing hair stylist to pull that off; I love the feathers, it jazzes it up; the front on the other hand looks too plain; you need some wow factor; either have bolder make up (vioelts and pinks) or maybe add some tendrils coming around your face or add more height for more ooomph

     
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    Chantellamus    October 15, 2009  

    I really like what you have done, not matronly...its fun!

    I loooove looove loove that huge feather hair piece you have! OMG! I wish I could wear something like that!

    I have this stupid little round head that whenever I put a hair piece in, I looked beyond silly!

     
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    ddchandl    8/2/09   Bloomington, IN

    I like the second one.  I also love the swirl design in the back.  Is there a way you could pin the fascinator to one side as not to cover up the gorgeous detail of your hairstyle?

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    brandonsbride    7/11/2009   Hume Lake, ca

    LOVE IT! I'm doing my hair very similar so of course I'm quite parcial =D And I"m wearing a feather fascinator in my hair too!! So fun!

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    JennyBryde    September 18, 2010   Moline, IL

    It's fantastic!  I like it!  Not matronly at all!!!

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    Future Mrs M    1-11-11   Michigan

    It looks so good! It looks even better with your hairpiece. I don't think it looks matronly at all! Very classic,

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    galandrien    Dec 14 2009   DC

    I think it is a lovely hair style.  Is it possible to start the intricate looping higher so it is not all covered by the hairpeice? (which I think both are lovely by the way!)

     

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