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I personally would post everything, not even due to etiquette. SIL lives upstairs from us and we still sent hers through the mail. Everyone likes receiving mail too :)
I'd just mail them, with the exception of co-workers, unless you have their home addresses.
If my family were close by, I'd just hand them the invites because we are practical - we save postage, and we actually like the cards hand delivered - it seems more personal. But I know for FI's famliy, they mail bday cards, x'mas etc. to each other even though they see each other so often. When I mentioned that I'd hand deliver cards to family, my FMIL made a face and said "NO, No! You don't do THAT!!" So, I guess it would bother some people, but I personally don't see anything wrong with it. We are going to mail all of ours, though, just to make it easier and I no longer live close to my family.
I voted to post them all. Like naangel said, everyone likes getting mail. And even though your reaons for wanting to hand-deliver some are practical, others might get their feelings hurt. I know it sounds silly, but ever since I got engaged I've been amazing at the things guests get upset over concerning weddings.
We mailed them all except for my roommate. I left hers in her mail pile, and she left her RSVP in my mail pile LOL
I would have hand-delivered to family if they lived nearby and I saw them regularly.
I guess I'll hand deliver the ones to coworkers and close family.
What do you all think of actually ringing a person's doorbell to hand them the invite versus just dropping it in their mailbox?
I love to get mail that's not junk or bills so I say mail them all!
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Is it ok to hand-deliver some invites, especially to those who are neighbors and coworkers/family I see regularly? Is this an etiquette no-no? Would it be best to just mail them all?