Hand delivering invitations?

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
Member
1817 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I don’t see why not.

ETA: I hand delivered my parents’ invitation just because I wanted to. I was exicted. 🙂

Post # 4
Member
11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

That’s definitely fine! Poor FILs!

Post # 5
Member
10748 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

Of course!

Post # 6
Member
311 posts
Helper bee

Absolutely this is an instance that you can throw etiquette out the window! Poor IL’s

Post # 7
Member
2325 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

We hand delivered all the invitations we could…then you know they’ve definitely got them. 

Post # 8
Member
1793 posts
Buzzing bee

Proper etiquette does NOT require invitations to be mailed.  There is no throwing etiquette out the window on this one.  Back in the day before the world depended on the postal service to delivery everything, invitations were hand delivered and it was considered the very proper way to do so.

The only time this would be a problem is if there are others around who are not being invited to the wedding.

OP – I hope your IL’s home is repaired quickly and they are able to recover from this.  What a tragedy!

Leave a comment


Sent weekly. You may unsubscribe at any time.

Find Amazing Vendors